Micro-cheating is the latest word to describe infidelity and poses the question: are you really having an affair? And if you’re not really having an affair, is your behaviour such that it is leading up to one? As a relationship therapist a large proportion of my work is helping clients deal with the, often destructive, … Read More
When writing on your hand or accessing your smartphone isn’t possible here are some Simple Ways to Be Better at Remembering
I see many couples at my practice in East London whose relationship is in trouble following an affair. Often these couples are unsure if they want to continue with the relationship, are unable to see how it would be possible to rebuild trust if they did want the relationship to continue, or can’t figure out … Read More
Taking the long view is ultimately better for mental health as ‘We Aren’t Built to Live in the Moment’. This excellent article by Martin Seligman and John Tierney argues that we are not prisoners of the present and the past because we are able to imagine and shape our futures. In doing so we can … Read More
It’s something of a relief to read that others out there in the world consider their parenting skills as a ‘work in progress’. Enjoy!
To Stay Married, Embrace Change. Embracing change is the key to staying married, so writes Ada Calhoun (The New York Times, 21st April 2017). Her excellent article cites change as the most common reason for divorce.
Viewing rejection as helpful is not a perspective that readily springs to mind. This article, which was on the opinion page of the Guardian a year ago, is worth a read. It concludes with the statement: “A rejection doesn’t mean you failed. It means you tried. Try again“.
Take the plunge, make the big change, say no to the status quo-a new year is about to begin! Fear breeds inertia, whereas taking risks will boost your confidence and forward momentum, Oliver Burkeman says. To all my clients: Have a happy Christmas and I wish you all a fulfilling and enjoyable new year.
Finding Solutions to problems in E11 and E18 When it comes to finding solutions there is no one-size-fits-all. I work with clients in east London in the Leytonstone (E11) and South Woodford area. Over the course of their therapy sessions with me clients are able to find solutions to their problems that are realistic, and because … Read More
I am an east London Counsellor offering solution-focused brief therapy to individuals, couples and families. Counselling in east London enables me to see clients from an extensive area of London and to keep my fees low. My east London therapy practice is based close to the tube. It is a 20 minute tube journey to Liverpool … Read More