During solution-focused therapy we use simple tools to measure the extent of a problem or difficulty. This scaling of an issue is useful because a) both the therapist and the client gain an understanding of how things stand, and b) it gives everyone in the room some assurance that they’re communicating well and singing off … Read More
good communication
Saving your Relationship – Masters and Disasters
Dr John Gottman has studied couples for over thirty years and has used his research to evolve a particular method of working with couples who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships. You may wish to view this clip, which identifies some of the essential elements which make couple relationships work. This was an out-take of … Read More
Intimacy
The routines of daily life and the attendant stresses and strains often result in couples losing contact. They believe they know all there is to know about one another and simply stop listening and talking to each other; intimacy dwindles away. Intimacy, which is aided by good communication, can be created in simple ways. … Read More