Vision

2nd October 2012By Deborah SadlerChoices, Solutions, Therapy

Have you got a clear view of what the ideal outcome would be to your problem?  If you’re having problems in your relationship, how would you envisage your ideal relationship; how would you like your interaction with your child/parent to be; what will life look like if you are no longer depressed, anxious or addicted; … Read More

Instances and Exceptions: the times when problems are not so influential

2nd July 2012By Deborah SadlerIssues, Relationships, Solutions, Therapy

We argue all the time.  I’m constantly angry.  He never talks.  She always criticises.  I’m always depressed/anxious/stressed.  She/he never contributes.  Our lives are always chaotic.  We have never been happy and contented.  I can’t ever trust him/her again. These are problem statements which come up regularly in therapy.  They are statements which many of us use … Read More